Two coaches, and neither of us started here.

No — this is coaching, a working conversation about how you operate, not therapy, couples or marriage counselling, or family therapy, and it does not address a diagnosable condition. If something you bring up needs a clinician, we say so and help you find one.

Yes, either. By video from anywhere in the world, or at your home in Santa Cruz County and across the Bay Area — the same format each week if you prefer.

By video, a single session is $130, or take a block of four ($495), eight ($935) or twelve ($1,325) — the longer the block, the less each session costs, down to $110. At your home it is $180 a session, with blocks from $695. Parent & Child coaching is $1,800 a month across a three-month term. Veterans and first responders get 15% off everything.

There is no fixed program for individual coaching — whatever brought you in usually took years to form; you decide when you are done, and we will tell you plainly if we think you are done sooner than you think. Parent & Child coaching is the exception, and runs as a fixed three-month term.

We work with you every week on something specific — a decision, a pattern, a standard you are holding yourself to — rather than a general check-in. You leave each session with one thing to do before the next.

We do not divide it that way. Whether you manage people or not, the work is the same: the specific conversation, decision, or pattern that is costing you at work. If your situation is mostly about leading others, that is most of what we will work on.

Either framing works. We help you work out whether a move is right, and if it is, how to make it — the actual conversations, timing, and what you are optimising for. We do not write resumes.

A mentor tells you what worked for them. A career coach works with what is actually true for you, one to one, without an interest in the outcome other than yours.

No. This is coaching for you — what you bring to your relationships, whichever one is hardest right now. Most of the work happens with one person.

Yes — the same pattern that shows up in a marriage shows up in dating, usually earlier and more visibly. If that is where you are, that is what we work on.

Often, yes. It is a good time to look at the pattern honestly, before it finds its way into the next relationship unnoticed.

Same work. How you are with a difficult colleague usually runs on the same handful of moves as how you are with family.

Both, and they are more connected than they look. Public speaking is the same underlying skill — being clear, and reading a room — aimed at more people at once. If a talk or presentation is the immediate thing, we work on that directly.

Works with you, one to one, on the specific place communication is breaking down — a relationship, a meeting, a stage — starting with listening and then moving to being understood.

That is most of the work, for most people. Being understood is the second half; almost everyone needs the first half more.

Yes. We will work the actual talk — structure, delivery, the room you are speaking to — alongside the broader skill.

A course teaches a room of people the same material. This is one to one, built around your actual situation, and it includes the listening half that most public speaking training skips entirely.

Yes. Parents often make the first call, and that is fine. From the first conversation, we are clear with everyone about what stays private.

What a young person says in their own session stays there. If a parent is paying or involved in scheduling, that does not change what is shared — only the young person decides what gets passed along, if anything.

It works best when they are willing, even reluctantly. If they are not willing at all, Parent & Child coaching — which starts with the parent — may be a better first step.

Parent & Child coaching is for a parent and child working together, with sessions for both. Young adult coaching is one to one with the young adult themselves — a parent can make the first call, but the ongoing work is theirs.

Most do not, at first. We start with you. What usually changes their mind is not persuasion — it is that the first thing they hear from us is what stays in their hour, and that turns out to be different from what they expected.

No. What is said in an individual session stays there. What we bring into the room together, we agree on beforehand. That is the difference between coaching and surveillance, and a young person needs to know which one this is.

Because a month is long enough to feel better and not long enough to change anything. Three months is roughly where the second and third conversations about the same pattern happen, which is where the work is.

Yes. A good deal of this work is with adults in their twenties and thirties. The distance changes the logistics, not the pattern.

It overlaps. Your child gets their own hour, like an individual life coaching client would — the difference is the coordination with you and, where useful, with school or a clinician already involved.